What is Our Personality?
We can
define that the personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and
behaviors that make a person unique. Psychologists have
studied human personalities for years and have come to a number of conclusions.
First of all, it is believed that certain traits in our character are
hereditary, yet things like our values and beliefs are derived from
socialization and unique experiences, mostly from childhood.
Based on that
statement, it’s likely that the personality of you and anyone you know is based
on:
Ø Social experiences
(especially from childhood)
Ø Unique
experiences that you have had in your lifetime
Ø The
environment in which you grew up and how you had to act.
I would like to share some
tips to improve your personality based on some psychological findings.
Be Honest With Your Current Traits
First we should
understand that every one of us has our own character in our life because it
became from our heredity or childhood. Therefor we should realize that it is
nature and it can be change by our self. So what you would have to do is, be
honest with your current traits and ready for the next steps to improve your
personality.
Define the Qualities You Want to Have
First you should analyze
what are the qualities that I need or what qualities will make me a good
person. Here I would like to indicate some of my qualities that I want to be
and interested in such as to be
Ø Independent
Ø Honest
Ø Positive
Ø Fun / Good sense of humor
Ø Trustworthy etc.
You should list your qualities that you want to be to
improve your personality.
Visualize
Yourself
I can strictly say that
visualization is a best process that will bring what you need in your life.
Because it is the one of main secrets to achieve your goals in your life.
Therefore you should visualize yourself to have those qualities which will
improve your personality in daily basis.
You should act whatever
you dreamed. Day dreaming is not happen until we take the correct action to
achieve it. Therefore if you want to be
positive then be positive, if you wish to be honest then start implementing
that in your life. You must practice to have those
qualities in everyday life. You should remember that “Practice will make man perfect”.
So you must follow your qualities to improve your personality in everyday life.
To achieve this target we should challenge our self to
improve our personality. It is simple when we practice. I hope this information
will change your personality when you practice in your everyday life.
